The following is the personality report generated by “Mind Prober”, a computer program which asks you to evaluate a person’s personality traits with simple agree/disagree responses. I am pretty impressed with its insightfulness, even after all these years (6/14/2009).
ANDRE MONSERRAT
GENERAL
Andre is a person who doesn’t approach life in a consistent manner. While he shows an interest in novel ideas and things, he also gets caught up worrying about seemingly trivial issues. His friends consider him to be unpredictable and probably a bit unusual. This is the kind of person who usually has a new project going every time you meet him.
Andre is likely to be an introvert who tends to judge his accomplishments against harsh standards. Since he seldom can achieve such lofty goals, he easily feels frustrated, worried and unhappy. He is also likely to believe that other people disapprove of his performance, even when he gives his best effort.
Underneath his worrisome exterior, Andre wants to be open and affectionate toward others. He wishes that everyone would like him and want to be his friend. Other people have trouble understanding this until they get to know him. He can be loyal and trustworthy once he overcomes his initial hesitation to show others what he is like.
RELATIONSHIPS
ANDRE APPRECIATES FRIENDS HE CAN TRUST AND ADAPT TO HIM
Andre may hesitate to initiate friendships because he fears rejection. Once he overcomes his suspicion of others, he can genuinely appreciate their friendship. He’ll probably settle for a relationship where his “best friend” actually has a number of other friends. Expect him to be especially shy about dating.
Don’t be fooled by Andre’s seeming aloofness. He can be interested in a relationship. He is likely to act uninterested because he is concerned about being ridiculed or criticized. He usually takes a long time to get to know someone before he lets his guard down. The key is to remember that he is dependent on others’ providing security. He will likely be loyal and considerate of the needs of whoever can offer such a relationship.
Andre’s occasional erratic behavior makes it difficult for him to maintain a long-term relationship. He can be eager to get involved with you one day and seem to lose interest or be preoccupied on the next. When he wants your companionship, he views any hesitation with great impatience.
Underneath his sometimes friendly demeanor is a hidden distrust of others. This may be seen in his harsh comments or thoughtless remarks that are designed to hurt others before they hurt him.
Most teens worry somewhat about their popularity, but Andre has raised it to an art form! He may brood over minor slights, even if they come from his circle of close friends. A kind and caring young person, he fits well into social situations that are structured around helping others.
He is emotionally needy and drawn to people he believes will give him acceptance and love. In return he can be generous to a fault. Sometimes his gratitude can take the form of overdependence. He may not want to leave you alone for a minute.
ATTITUDES TOWARDS SCHOOL
ANDRE MAY BE OVERLY SENSITIVE IN SCHOOL
Andre is likely to be sensitive to anything that can be construed as criticism. He will try to avoid school situations where his own performance can be seen as inferior when compared to others. If something happens to upset him, he may want to leave the class or the school.
ATTITUDES TOWARDS WORK
ANDRE WORKS HARD, BUT MAY GET IN OVER HIS HEAD
Andre will work hard to master the various tasks which confront him in life. He is a dedicated worker who will apply himself fully to the job at hand. While he can feel burdened by these things, you can expect him to expend the energy necessary to reach his goals. For Andre, a job without challenges would be boring.
Andre looks for jobs which offer novelty. He often seems to be making play out of work, doing things that are fun. At times he may not be able to handle the stress when job pressures build. Then he’ll argue with others and consider quitting.
COPING WITH STRESS
IT’S HARD FOR ANDRE TO DEAL WITH STRESS BY HIMSELF
It seems that Andre keenly feels all of the world’s strains on him. Adjusting to stress is difficult for Andre. He prefers his world to be steady and predictable. Although he is normally inclined to be anxious and worrisome, he is likely to become even more so when under pressure. He may speed up his manner of talking, or slow way down and
be on the verge of tears.
Lacking a tough skin or cavalier attitude to protect himself, he takes refuge by withdrawing from others. When tension mounts, you are likely to see him turn away from whatever or whoever is causing the problem, and go off by himself. He’ll become more silent than usual and probably keep to himself for long periods of time. His anger will likely be turned on himself, causing him to feel somewhat helpless. He does not handle stressful situations well, finding it difficult to figure out ways to cope.
Even though he needs it, he will shrug off attention from his friends. He may try to tough it out and pretend that things are under control, but it is likely to be apparent to those who are around him that this is not true. Stress can change him into a moody, unpredictable person who needs support from others but also resents having to ask for it. He will seek out support and comfort from his close friends. The reassurances of others can help him break out of the cycle of despair which excess stress has set in motion.
Tough times cause Andre to lean heavily on those around him for support. He can be preoccupied with his difficulties and tends to prefer staying in his own misery instead of taking action. Too much stress is likely to cause him to become excessively indecisive and uncertain about what to do.
Life can sometimes be one big disappointment for Andre. He often feels let down by what he most wants. He may become so carried away by his emotional state that he loses control — his moods can change at a moment’s notice.
You may watch Andre “blow up” into aggressive, verbal outbursts, and then just as quickly apologize. He usually feels badly about making a scene, but can’t keep himself from doing so when he feels pressured. Coping with stress is no easy task for him.
PERSONAL INTERESTS
ANDRE KEEPS TO HIMSELF MOST OF THE TIME
Many areas can spark Andre’s interest, ranging from the conventional to the unusual or novel. He explores life with a unique blend of caution and excitement-seeking.
Andre’s chief contribution to any project or group effort is his ability to show consideration and caring. He can devote more time, either in the form of worry or work, to a project then most others.
While he may possess an intuitive understanding of other people, he is also likely to pursue his own hobbies or special areas of interest. In working on such tasks he may strive for perfection, never being able to leave well enough alone and feel satisfied with his best efforts. At his best he is able to tie up loose ends and track down details that others may overlook.
Andre may hide his many capabilities from most of the world except for his very close companions. He prefers to spend his time in solitary pursuits, deeply involved in tasks that demand all his talents and attention. Andre has the determination to work long hours on tasks without the companionship of others. Hobbies or projects which require his full attention tend to be his favorites.
You are more apt to see this person playing chess with his best friend, or working alone, than out socializing with friends. He enjoys the effort he puts into his hobbies or personal projects and does not mind that he excludes others from joining in his fun.
ATTITUDES TOWARDS SEX
ANDRE IS LIKELY TO BE CAUTIOUS WHEN IT COMES TO SEX
You may be wondering if Andre has any real interest in sex. He can seem remote and silent. The very mention of anything related to sex probably embarrasses him and may cause him to leave the room.
It is likely that he is very anxious about his own sexuality, worrying about things like his attractiveness and his performance. If you see him avoiding close contact it is likely due to his own nervousness rather than anything else.
When Andre first becomes involved in a sexual relationship, he will probably seem a bit shy or awkward. Don’t give up on him too soon. After his fears subside, he will be able to participate in lovemaking with fewer worries or concerns about your opinion.
He can be an affectionate, playful partner. However, he is not able to demonstrate such behavior until he gains a certain degree of comfort and security in the relationship.
At times, Andre is easily aroused and eager to be romantically involved. He can reveal the intense, adventurous side of himself when he feels secure. However, his vulnerability frequently surfaces and causes him to over-react to potential rejection or perceived slights.
This may result in his switching to a passive role and waiting for his partner to make the overtures. He needs to be reassured of his desirability and attractiveness in order to feel secure.
WHAT MAKES ANDRE MONSERRAT TICK
Andre is a person of conflicting drives. If he would stay away from those things that unnerve him, his life would be a lot easier. Unfortunately, he manages to get himself involved in pursuits or relationships that try his emotions. His response is usually to tax the emotions of those around him.
Andre’s ability to pay attention to intuition and subtle clues can be an asset. He has the skill to sense what others may be feeling even before they say anything. However, if he fails to check out his impressions and instead worries about them in private, he may cause himself a great deal of unhappiness. When his anxiety gets the better of him, he often finds it difficult to cope.
Andre is probably searching for a safe place in which stress is kept to a minimum. In order for him to face life’s responsibilities, he may need emotional support and encouragement from others. This can be difficult for others to give him, however, because he tends to keep most people at an emotional distance.
Andre stands apart from others in that he is often feeling troubled or upset. A sensitive individual, he will take any opportunity to worry about real or possible problems. He is also concerned about his self-esteem, and is likely to feel insecure about his abilities. Because of this, he is not inclined to take criticism lightly. His friends probably find it necessary to offer encouragement and support to alleviate his discomfort.
Andre has a quick temper and will not hesitate to let you know if he disagrees with you. This kind of person does not take criticism well, and can be quite argumentative. Andre is not bothered by confrontation, provided he wins, and may even enjoy fighting with others.